My Dad

Why this story is important

Every dad has a life story full of struggles, achievements, quirks, and wisdom. Writing it down preserves that legacy so future generations know where they came from and what shaped their family’s journey. Otherwise, many of those details can be lost with time.

Your father’s story helps children, grandchildren, and beyond feel connected to him—even if they never met him. It ties them into a larger family narrative, fostering a sense of belonging and identity. Makes a great Father’s Day gift or memorial tribute on his birthday.

Preparation checklist

• Gather your thoughts and materials. Review your journals and notes that might help you remember details.
• Browse your photo albums to stimulate memories and choose the photos you might want to use in the story.
• Decide who you’ll share the finished story with. Just yourself? Family? Friends? Public post? Thinking about your audience in advance will help guide what memories and details to include and which ones to leave out.

How to use the Times of My Life App to capture your story:

*The Virtual Biographer has instant access to similar stories written and shared by millions of other people. It knows what questions to ask and in what order. It can help you relive events, thoughts and feelings. It can help illuminate the essence of your experience and then craft a story that is uniquely yours. If a question doesn’t seem relevant to your experience, just skip it. Answer at least five questions. Tap “Next” and tap “Additional Details” to speak or type from memory.

Add media, save and publish as a printed piece, audiocast, and/or video

Insert photos and video clips wherever you want them to appear in the story narrative. Add voice narration and background music if you want to create an audiocast or video, in addition to a printed piece.

Share and revise as desired

After the story is written by you or your virtual biographer, you can “share” it through he app with friends and loved ones. Their feedback can provide valuable perspective and help you improve your story. After you get their feedback you can go back and edit the story as desired — or ask the Virtual Biographer to rewrite it with the feedback!

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Write the Story Yourself: Suggested Outline

1🌱 Early Life & Roots

• Where and when was Dad born?
• What was his family like (parents, siblings, heritage)?
• What kind of childhood stories or memories stand out?
• Were there values or traditions passed down in his household?

📚 Growing Up

• What was school like for him?
• Who were his early friends or role models?
• Did he have hobbies, interests, or talents that defined him?
• Any stories of challenges or mischief from his youth?

💼 Work & Purpose

• What was Dad’s career path or calling in life?
• How did he support or inspire others through his work?
• Did he have mentors, bosses, or colleagues who influenced him?
• What was he most proud of professionally?

❤️ Love & Family

• How did Dad meet your mom (or his partner)?
• What was he like as a husband/partner?
• Describe him as a father — his style, his lessons, his humor.
• Are there family traditions or moments he created?

🎉 Personality & Passions

• What were Dad’s favorite activities, sports, books, or music?
• What sayings, quirks, or habits made him unique?
• How did others describe him (friends, family, neighbors)?

🧭 Values & Lessons

• What principles guided his decisions and actions?
• What advice did he give that still rings true?
• How did he show resilience, kindness, or leadership?

🌟 Defining Moments

• Were there turning points in his life (moves, military service, illness, achievements)?
• Times of joy, struggle, or sacrifice that shaped his story?
• A proudest achievement or unforgettable memory?

🌿 Later Years & Reflections

• How did he view life in his later years?
• What did he enjoy most about retirement, grandchildren, or quiet time?
• What reflections or wisdom did he share about aging or the meaning of life?

🍂 Legacy

• How has Dad’s life impacted yours and others?
• What traditions, values, or stories will carry on because of him?
• What do you want future generations to know about him?

✅ Final Touch: Add photos, a favorite quote or saying of his, or a memory told by another family member. These personal touches bring the story to life.

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